In ons daaglikse lewe skuil ons so dikwels agter n masker. Hierdie maskers is nie die soort wat jy met n maskerade gaan opsit nie - Dit is bloot n mens wat jyself skep en waaragter jy skuil.Ons neem van vroeg af alles wat ons hoor in, posetief sowel as negatief, en dan internaliseer ons mense se reaksie op ons aksies en ons weeg onsself daarteen op.
Omdat 80% van mense se terugvoer negatiewe terugvoer is, is dit geen wonder ons persepsie van onsself sluit dinge in soos: "Ek is dom", "Ek is lelik", "Ek is n mislukking".
Hoe dikwels dra gewone ordentlike, vredeliewende, beskaafde mense maskers - hulle ry die duurste motors, bly in die mooiste huise, het universiteitsgrade, verdien goeie salarisse.
Maar voorkoms is soms misleidend...
Want agter die masker van fatsoenlikheid, sukses en beskaafdheid, skuil daar leegheid, innerlike doodsheid, sluimer die vrees van: "Ek is nie goed genoeg nie"!
Wil mense hulself bloot emosioneel "beskerm" deur die dra van n masker? Ons leef immers in n stukkende wereld. n Wereld wat vuisvoos geraak het van emosionele slae en psigiese manipulasie. Wil mense van die trauma ontkom deur maskers te dra... of wil mense bloot net die gevoel van :"Ek is nie goed genoeg nie" wegsteek?
Wil hulle ten alle koste keer dat die wereld nie die rou seer moet raaksien nie... want in die oe van die wereld is jy mos n "swakkeling" as jy nie kan "cope" nie!...
En daarom laai ons deur die jare net meer bykomstighede by - dinge wat die maskers meer geloofwaardig moet maak... nog n graad, miskien n blinker motor of groter huis...
Maar uiteindelik word die maskers so swaar, ons kan dit nie meer dra nie!
Hi Nims,
ReplyDeleteDis abei waar...want ons sien onsself deur mense se oe en meet onsself aan mense se materialistiese standaarde in plaas van weet ons is kosbaar, uniek en spesiaal... want Hy het ons geskape... presies net soos ons is..
Hallo Nimsi,
ReplyDeleteMaskers is baie lekker om agter weg te kruip. Dan hoef jy nie jouself te wees nie, jy is die persoon wat deur die masker verpersoonlik word. Daardie persoon kan dan weer wees wat hy of sy wil wees.
Jy is reg, uiteindelik word die masker so swaar dat hy val en breek. Die mens wat dan agter hom geskuil het, miskien vir jare, staan dan oop en bloot. Gestroop van al die aanhangsels. Dit is partykeer ook nie 'n mooi gesig om te sien nie.
Dit is hoe die Here wil hê dat ons na hom toe moet kom, net soos ons is, sodat Hy van ons 'n nuwe mens kan maak wat nie nodig het om agter daardie masketr weg te kruip nie.
Groete
Dit is so waar, en selfs die van ons wat se ons het nie n masker nie het ook maar een, ons gebruik dit vir beskerming-se ons vir onsself, maar as ons net onsself is is die lewe soveel makliker.
ReplyDeleteJip, Nims, "emosionele beskerming." Maak nou nie saak WIE dit doen nie. En deel daarvan is die sonde van Eden: "I am number One, and you better take note."
ReplyDeleteDis waar Nimsi en baie keer sit dit nog swaarder laste op mens op die maskers te probeer ophou. Soveel beter om net die mens te wees wat ons veronderstel is om te wees.
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